Give the gift of kindness
Every year, when I hear Céline Dion sing “So this is Christmas, what have you done? Another year over, a new one just begun”, I do reflect on what contribution I’ve made. Most of us want to leave a positive legacy; in my case, I want to contribute to more understanding, fairness and kindness in the workplace. Thirty some years ago when I started my career, no one was talking about kindness. Now, we are very aware of the broad impact each of us can have — that if we don’t treat each other well, so much is in peril, including the success of organizations and future generations of workers.
Kindness is about being generous with your time and with compliments, being respectful, being compassionate, and generally having concern for others. And research shows that the ‘givers’ of kindness have lower stress levels and a greater feeling of happiness. At work, there are many ways you can be kind:
1: Tell others what you appreciate about them, that you are grateful for what they do.
2: Be inclusive when planning lunches and celebrations — reach out to others who are outside of your ‘normal’ circle.
3: When someone makes a mistake, make them feel better by telling them about mistakes you have made.
4: Take the spotlight off yourself and think of ways to shine it on others.
5: Reach out and make time to connect with someone who is ‘quiet’ or may be having personal challenges.
6: Be patient when others aren’t as ‘quick’ to catch on to things as you would be.
Smile!
A year ago, our blog focused on taking an intentional approach to the holiday season by honouring diversity and finding ways to celebrate our similarities and differences.
On a more personal level, you may want to consider expressing kindness by giving holiday cards to the homeless through an organization such as The Christmas Card Collective, or writing to a Canadian soldier posted overseas through the Department of National Defence.
At the Centre for Character Leadership, we’re passionate about character cultures. Please contact me if you would like assistance in instilling kindness in your company culture.
Sincerely,
Kathleen Redmond, MA, MCC
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